I wanted to ask my pediatrician the card points : Port Elizabeth from her more and more points. While we're there to make the sauna in his waiting room every two weeks, why not combine business with pleasure with a beautiful card that entitles you to some very useful gift? I know ... a natural rubber tube decorated with tribal designs, a carboy of saline, a family-size bottle of paracetamol, a vacuum-carbon nose ....
In short, this week we made our trip to the pediatrician with a cough, fever, runny nose (then we could calibrate points: fever above 38.5 ° entitles you to 2 points, vomiting and dysentery 4 ... ok, the tears.) and Dr. says to me "Well lady, when children go to the nest is so ..." And I : "But Elizabeth does not go to the nest!" She said "Well lady, the girl has left the antibodies in his belly ..." Someone has to explain it to me, are puzzled. Like when a friend of mine (no children) asked me "Okay, but you have to explain to me 'I'm cap that is lost before birth. ... But that cap is ????" Behold, I am so puzzled . What do the antibodies in my belly? Why not have come up with Elizabeth? Will not it be the pediatrician that I tossed a sentence of what you say to mothers anxious for sedarle at least until the next visit?
pediatrician's assertion, however, gave me the opportunity to reflect on this nest ...
When it came time to decide whether to put Elizabeth in a nest or entrust it to my grandmother, I had no doubt that my grandmother was the choice, balanced and thought out, the choice for me more natural. In fact with the passing of months many people have asked me, surprised, the reasons for this choice, many have tried to convince me that it was not the best thing for me and my daughter.
I held firm, because when I'm sure of one thing gets a little 'a tank, but I've thought about, and I gutted the reasons that led me to this decision. I would like to share it, because I'd like to know what you think, and what you chose you!
I believe that a fundamental premise: I believe the nest is an essential service, important for the growth of children, especially if they are well organized by the operators and if the parents lived as a car park but as an educational site.
That said, I must add that for reasons related to my work I have seen several nests, and nests in micronidi family, I have read the programming and projects. And none of them convinced me enough to think of sending my daughter. Not because they were not good places, but because none of them have seen the membership of a specific educational theory, the development of an educational project convincing methodologies consistent with theories explained and explained, means of verification ... Yes, I know, I'm a pedantic and specifying Rompin, the recognize. "Hello, my name is Giuppy and twenty-six more days will not torment the teachers of my daughter" . Behold, I am.
yet, seriously, I look at these things too: a dream Montessori nursery where everything, from furniture, games, work tools of the teachers are Montessori. And the 'I found. Giuppy-nest: 1-0.
There is another motivation, much deeper, more personal, perhaps even more difficult to explain: I believe in a nest Elizabeth would lead to many stimuli, and could learn new things and experiment with games relations, and yet .... Grandparents, for generations, have a role that is not only the "free parking" grandchildren, I am convinced that grandparents have the fundamental task of passing values, to understand the rules and teach the ways of bypassing them with a smile. Grandparents are capable of educating the value of money, they give free lessons of ecology and recycling, often a kitchen, teach creative use of objects ... With love. So if I choose to go to Elizabeth day full of emotionally neutral stimuli with people or make them spend a day with his grandmother and discover the many uses of a tent, I choose the latter. Why playing with her grandmother Elizabeth learns to love and absorb values, through his grandmother, Elizabeth learns something about my dad, breathe the air that I breathe, I came in touch with my roots. Giuppy-nest: 2 - 0 .
I can think of many other topics: socialization, education rules, the development of creativity ... I also thought about these and sign the end is always a point in favor of grandparents ... Because I'm not sure that a young child is capable of true socialization, because I believe that the rules that we carry with us throughout life are those who learn at home, because to me creativity is also playing with the leaves.
do not rule out that sooner or later will insert a nest in Elizabeth: I'm not going with the long face, but in fact I am sure it will be a great experience for her and for me too ... it's just that now I can afford to choose and then even think of toying with the pros and cons without anxiety to find a solution.
mothers, aunts, friends, teachers of the nest, grandmothers .... I have a feeling you have something to say about this topic, I'm curious!!
Giuppy
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