The previous post nest asylum was an issue that I consider fundamental, and I know I am not alone: \u200b\u200b rules. You've mentioned in the comments, the designation of the nest or grandparents as co-responsible for teaching the rules to our children.
I agree, and my vision is this: the rules are learned at home by her mother and father. The nest, grandparents, school, scouts are precisely co-responsible, because most parents do especially by their example. E 'inside the walls of the house that you can measure the limits, with the "NO" and the "not done" well that certainly with the' AS IS '. "
looks like a small thing, but it's a mess.
Elizabeth at 6 months has started to be very attracted to hair (anyone): slowly approached, hooked the lock in a vise that started from caress ... and pulled a fake, with adequate power. We have therefore begun to use the "NO!" For these occasions: each time, only the little word "NO". I have also tried to enhance lifting and moving the index, but then I stopped because it was hypnotized looking at my finger rather than be focused on the problem. Elizabeth felt after a while, 'What does the little word, though still not always obey, laughs, challenges ... but he at least understood.
Because it is lazy in, sometimes the number of "NO" that they stop as soon as he hooked a sock who wants to suck your heater and make it give up. It seems that you think "Okay, here is the story long ago: this continues to look at me and tell me NO, I'd better throw it to suck the carpet in the bathroom" . And then I do not have the heart to say no even on the pad.
Now that the little woman moves back in the house crawling (and ONLY in the back) and chose as favorite game liters of saliva spit on the floor, spend their hands and spread the saliva as temperature was, the issue becomes more complex. not the slightest perception of danger and the sense of causality, then it seems to me perfectly Needless to say "Careful darling Mother: Because you have slipped under the chair, if you get up a head shot will do very badly" or : "Careful darling of her mother: if you play down on the bowl of succulent plants, you prick ".
does not seem right to begin 9 months to make them come the paranoia about cleaning the house, so if you want to make a pavement artist on the floor using his saliva, I'll leave you to do: give her a mop in thumbnail will just walk. Or the chalk, it depends on what will be good.
I do not even seem right to limit its exploration the house (again with the back inserted): I do not want to put it in the box and even in the walker, as a matter of principle (please, do not ask me to explain that I have here two hours ) . So who will baptize every corner bears the scars forever, but then life is: a hit on the head and falls, but we must learn to take measurements with the things of life.
But ....
Okay explore the environment, but my daughter has a fetish for slippers and shoes are his object of desire, if we let a mule around unpaired She flips over and you start to suck. In short, go for the antibodies, but it seems to me a bit 'too much ...
It's OK to gain experience and understand that the edges do not move with the power of thought, but our house has always been anti- child: ultra-modern furniture with sharp edges and under furniture boards, one whole wall of stone, tv almost at the floor, open library (it's my fix: the books in a house you MUST see).
But now that you do it? One evening we tried to think what to do to protect Elizabeth from all dangers that could arise and to keep away from things that we do not want to touch and .... You know when Dexter will prepare scenarios for dismembering his victims? Here, a soundproof room completely covered with cellophane.
No, we did not.
For me now the real dilemma of the rules is this: how to teach Elizabeth that some things can be touched and not others, leaving them free to move and live, like every child of 9 months should feel at home?
My husband and I have made a pact signed with the blood "Our home must not become a playground. We must not give Elizabeth to the living room table to fill the camper barbie, and even the library should become a display of Lego. We must not bend to the will of a tall woman half of us, it is she who must adapt to our house, our rhythms, our lives. "
Ah how good we are, their parents and decided sure, steadfast, hard and fast rules. Bravo!
Sure, as long as the good little woman did not move her hands and could not even hold his head. But now??
moms, help!
Giuppy
In the photo above you can see Elizabeth in the back got stuck under the foot rest of Poang.
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